What married woman doesn't dream of having a perfect monogamous marriage? A marriage full of understanding, commitment, and undying love. While marriages like this exist there are those that only exist within the life of one partner. While the wife is trying everything in her power to commit to and honor the man she married, another woman has stepped in and is doing things to her husband that should remain sacred in a marriage. Basically...there is a woman out there that is and more than willing to fuck your husband.
I know one of these woman. I have known her for a long time and frequently hear about her sexcapades with all types of men. I guess you could say I've grown accustomed to hearing these stories of infidelity and random sex acts with ex's, attached men, pastors, personal trainers and of course married men. With homewreckers/sluts/hoes/bitches or whatever you want to call them coming to light and so many of us asking the same questions, I decided to do a quick interview with her to see her side of things. I'll call her Tiffany, as a way to protect her identity. Although I'm certain she wouldn't care if I revealed her.
Tiffany is an African American 30-something self-proclaimed hoe that has been around the block more than a kid just getting off punishment during summer vacation. She works full time and lives alone. Just her and her small terrier. She was once married to a white man. She is the type of woman that simply exudes intense sexual energy. It's not necessarily from her looks, it's in her presence and the things that she says. I have seen her on the prowl first hand, and men do come after her. I'm not sure if it's because she may appear to be an easy lay or if she's using some type of voodoo. Whatever the case, she gets enough vitamin D to last all my girls a lifetime.
The obvious question is why? Why do you sleep with men in relationships and men that are married?
"Because I know they have to go back home, they can't spend the night. I like
my freedom. Relationships have schedules."
So you can't find a single man to do this with?
"No! Men say that want to remain single but later they switch the script and get mad when you go out. They start asking questions. Ding-a-lings get
Is there any way you wouldn't mess with an attached man?
"If I'm friends with his wife or if I know her, I won't. If I even see her I loose the excitement"
Do you feel bad?
"Hell naw! I don't loose sleep. I'm not the one cheating on
So you don't feel responsible for it at all?
"He approached me. I just opened the door. I open the door every day. That doesn't mean you're supposed to walk through. And the moment you say 'divorce' I loose interest."
How do you feel about the Fantasia situation?
"I feel bad for Fanny because she didn't know that man wasn't separated.
She really wanted something from it."
Have any of these married men ever tried to lie to you about their situation?
"I ask straight up questions. So the men I've dealt with are open because
I'm open. They wear their rings."
How do they approach the topic of sex? Who brings it up
"Sometimes I do. They make innuendos...beating around the bush. They may
say, 'Would you have sex with a married man?' and I'll tell them 'Yea!' I don't
let them come to my house because I can't come to theirs. I tell them they have
to get a hotel room, which presents a problem sometimes. But when I tell them
forget it then, they always get one."
At this point most of you are probably thinking, "Damn, her karma is going to messed up." But I've known this woman for a long time and I don't think she believes karma will hit her back. Not in this lifetime. She's been married and has no plans of getting into a serious relationship ever again. She enjoys simply playing the field. Now I think that if karma does hit her, it will be in the form of an angry wife with a swinging bat.
I look at Tiffany's sexual activity with married men as something of a convenience and thrill. Something a single man simply cannot provide for her. Is it right? This blogger can't say that it is right. But it's not my lifestyle. There are women and men out there that do this everyday. This (self-proclaimed) hoe just has the balls to talk about it.